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pato
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 Posted: 22 Jan 2004 03:06 PM Post subject: Sex Questions |
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1. After how much time of being bf/gf should a girl give it up?
2. Do you care how many past sexual partners a prospective GF might have? What's the most you'll let slide?
3. Would you respect a girl if she gave it up after only 1 month of going out?
Does anybody here have sex? Cause the other time I posted about something having to do with sex and hardly anyone responded. Somebody even called me a pig the other time for talking about sex. |
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mof
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| Posted: 22 Jan 2004 04:03 PM Post subject: Re: Sex Questions |
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| pato wrote: | 1. After how much time of being bf/gf should a girl give it up?
2. Do you care how many past sexual partners a prospective GF might have? What's the most you'll let slide?
3. Would you respect a girl if she gave it up after only 1 month of going out?
Does anybody here have sex? Cause the other time I posted about something having to do with sex and hardly anyone responded. Somebody even called me a pig the other time for talking about sex. |
Are those questions fucking serious? |
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pato
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| Posted: 22 Jan 2004 04:07 PM Post subject: |
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| Yes they are serious, am I offending somebody? |
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mof
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| Posted: 22 Jan 2004 04:20 PM Post subject: |
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| pato wrote: | | Yes they are serious, am I offending somebody? |
Not that I know of.
But they're just so juvenile and sexist. They wreak of that double standard where a woman apparently shouldn't have as many sexual partners as a man or "give it up" as easily as a man. And asking if a man would still respect a woman if she slept with him after a month of dating? Well, if you're in love with her, then the answer is ya. If you're not in love with her and you're just casually dating and you both want to have sex, then the answer is still ya. The only reason you wouldn' t respect her is if you're a jack ass. Because if you're dating a girl who you don't respect just to bang her, then you're the one not deserving respect.
Every situation is different. There are no rules. Women are just as sexual as men. And all those double standards are seriously antiquated. |
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pato
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| Posted: 22 Jan 2004 04:32 PM Post subject: |
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| Good response, and I don't think I'm being sexist or juvenile cause I'm just asking what other's opinions are, I haven't stated my opinions yet. But let's leave the double standard behind and give me an honest answer, you don't think that a guy should mind that a prospective GF has slept with over 30 guys? Let's be real and let's face it that guys do go out with girls just for sex and after they get tired of "hitting it", they dump them and look for another victim. And yes, the more a girl holds back and doesn't give it up, the more respect they get from guys. It's not about being antiquated, but about being honest. |
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elchrist
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| Posted: 23 Jan 2004 10:40 AM Post subject: Re: Sex Questions |
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| pato wrote: | 1. After how much time of being bf/gf should a girl give it up?
2. Do you care how many past sexual partners a prospective GF might have? What's the most you'll let slide?
3. Would you respect a girl if she gave it up after only 1 month of going out?
Does anybody here have sex? Cause the other time I posted about something having to do with sex and hardly anyone responded. Somebody even called me a pig the other time for talking about sex. |
I hate to take this off on a tangent, but in today's complex world, at least outside of the Imperial Valley, you almost always have to be "intimate" with someone that you're dating.
I completely respect the partner holding back from sexual intercourse or even foreplay, but there could potentially be times when there is a very wrong reason for it happening. The reason could be something straight out of the Jerry Springer show.
If you're straight, or even gay, you'd almost never expect the person you're dating to be of the wrong gender preference. Now if you're bi-sexual, then it most likely wouldn't be a problem, but you never know when you could end up with a transvestite, hermaphrodite, or someone with a sex change.
Of course, this is why communication is very important in any relationship. |
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pato
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| Posted: 23 Jan 2004 11:26 AM Post subject: |
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| elchrist wrote: | I hate to take this off on a tangent, but in today's complex world, at least outside of the Imperial Valley, you almost always have to be "intimate" with someone that you're dating.
I completely respect the partner holding back from sexual intercourse or even foreplay, but there could potentially be times when there is a very wrong reason for it happening. The reason could be something straight out of the Jerry Springer show.
If you're straight, or even gay, you'd almost never expect the person you're dating to be of the wrong gender preference. Now if you're bi-sexual, then it most likely wouldn't be a problem, but you never know when you could end up with a transvestite, hermaphrodite, or someone with a sex change.
Of course, this is why communication is very important in any relationship |
So you're saying that it is a MUST to have sex with the person you're dating just so that you know that he/she isn't gay? After how long is it ok to ask your S.O. to prove to you she's not gay? So why date that person if you can't trust what they're saying? |
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Mars
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| Posted: 24 Jan 2004 12:06 PM Post subject: |
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| I am going to sound like a dick and I really don't care. A double standard does exist and I'm glad I'm not a chick. Chicks who fuck alot are only worth fucking. I am glad that there are chicks who fuck a lot it makes things easier for guys. I'm totally for people expressing themselves sexually the thing is girls are going to be sluts when they do it. (hey i didn't make the rules). The problem I have is that a lot of people have sex because they are trying to get some sort of pathetic feeling of being loved that they are not getting any where else. That is why so many young girls are getting pregnant. I mean if a chick just want to get off she can masterbate and probably end up feeling more satisfied. The thing is what chicks really want is to be held after you screw them (the whole feeling loved thing). |
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Mars
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| Posted: 24 Jan 2004 12:08 PM Post subject: |
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| pato wrote: | | Good response, and I don't think I'm being sexist or juvenile cause I'm just asking what other's opinions are, I haven't stated my opinions yet. But let's leave the double standard behind and give me an honest answer, you don't think that a guy should mind that a prospective GF has slept with over 30 guys? Let's be real and let's face it that guys do go out with girls just for sex and after they get tired of "hitting it", they dump them and look for another victim. And yes, the more a girl holds back and doesn't give it up, the more respect they get from guys. It's not about being antiquated, but about being honest. |
So why don't you quite fucking aroung and start the thread with your opinion? |
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chainsmokinmonkey
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| Posted: 09 Feb 2004 01:42 AM Post subject: |
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| pato wrote: | | elchrist wrote: | I hate to take this off on a tangent, but in today's complex world, at least outside of the Imperial Valley, you almost always have to be "intimate" with someone that you're dating.
I completely respect the partner holding back from sexual intercourse or even foreplay, but there could potentially be times when there is a very wrong reason for it happening. The reason could be something straight out of the Jerry Springer show.
If you're straight, or even gay, you'd almost never expect the person you're dating to be of the wrong gender preference. Now if you're bi-sexual, then it most likely wouldn't be a problem, but you never know when you could end up with a transvestite, hermaphrodite, or someone with a sex change.
Of course, this is why communication is very important in any relationship |
So you're saying that it is a MUST to have sex with the person you're dating just so that you know that he/she isn't gay? After how long is it ok to ask your S.O. to prove to you she's not gay? So why date that person if you can't trust what they're saying? |
i think you missed the point. you don't have sex to prove trust. you have sex to build upon a relationship. if you go into a relationship without trust then you are a fool. that's where communication comes into play. you need communication and trust before you jump into any relationship. if you go into a releationship for the pure joy of gettin your peepee wet, then it shows how shallow and untrustworthy you really are. it's people like you that give decent men a bad reputation. |
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